Thursday, August 8, 2013

The 30 Day Blog Challenge, Day 3: Family

Sorry that I'm a bit behind on this challenge. I had to do an overnight babysitting job on Sunday and I've been pretty sick this week. I hope to do a bit of catching up today, but I might be a little behind over the next few days. So sorry!!! :(

Prompt: Describe your relationship with your family.

This is an easy and tough one at the same time, because while my family consists of people that I feel I couldn't live without, they have their flaws, and they have the capability to drive me nuts. I think all families are like that. While we all have our bad days in our families, our family is the people that we love for everything that they are.

I am in a family of 5, plus a dog. Dad, Mom, Me, Moriah, Caleb, and then Ace (the Jack Russell Terrier extraordinaire). Dad is the wisest in the family. All he ever asks of us is to listen to his words, to follow his instructions, and obey him, which is the way that he receives love. (God says the same, by the way in John 14:15, "If you love me, obey my commandments.") He's the administrative pastor at our church, and works from home, acting as the parent that is constantly available and prepared to suit our needs. Mom is the Wonder Woman of the family. She has a full time job as the head of one of the biggest and best classical Christian schools in Colorado. She's also a mother of three and director of the Family Ministry at our church. I look up to her every day as a teacher and a beautiful, intelligent, and godly woman. I'm the eldest of the three kids in our family. I have the faults of trying to be a peacekeeper, but that immediately turns into being the wallflower. On the other hand, I'm a junior in high school, a hard worker, good student, musician, teacher, and writer. (But some of you know enough about me already to figure that one out...) Moriah is the spunky, creative, pretty, and tall lady in our family. She's 14, and has a beautiful smile that lights up an entire room. She loves the Lord and praises Him everyday with her lovely singing voice. (Link to her blog: leighhillcountry.blogspot.com) Caleb (bless his heart) is the youngest boy in our family, a sweet gentleman who has as much patience as a dog waiting for a bone (because of his living with three women and everything.) He's very smart, especially with math, and loves to play soccer. 

My family is the group of people that I care most about in the world, and I'm glad I got to share them with you all! :)

Question for the Reader: What is your family like?

"But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord." --Joshua 24:15b

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Summer Bucket List Update--8/06/13

I've been scratching off a few more things on my summer bucket list, so I thought I'd give you guys a glimpse on my progress. :)

  1. Do a vlog post.
  2. Post frequently on Victorious Heroine
  3. Get an awesome gift for Father's Day
  4. Go to Disney World
  5. Take lots of pictures
  6. Color in a coloring book or on a coloring page
  7. Play in the rain
  8. Pick flowers
  9. Write some poems or stories
  10. Give a person/people a present and/or a care package
  11. Wear a sundress
  12. Fro yo!
  13. Fly a kite
  14. Launch a rocket
  15. Bake cookies
  16. Create a chalk art masterpiece
  17. Sip an Arnold Palmer (sweet tea and lemonade combined!)
  18. Blow bubbles
  19. Go to the library
  20. Play in the park
  21. Play hopscotch
  22. Play foursquare
  23. Game night
  24. Fireworks
  25. Do something out of the ordinary.
  26. Watch movies never seen before and movies that I haven’t seen in awhile
  27. Summer of Blimey Cow
  28. Listen to BCAN
  29. Photo a day challenges
  30. Grill out
  31. Make homemade ice cream or sorbet
  32. Go shopping
  33. Eat a slice of watermelon
  34. Bowling
  35. Get a pineapple dole whip at Disney World
  36. Conquer my fears at Disney's Haunted Mansion and Rockin' Rollercoaster
  37. Go to the Beach!!!
  38. Go to Water World
  39. Go on a hike
  40. Have picnics
  41. Go for neighborhood bike rides
  42. Eat a fruit pop
  43. Buy a mocha coconut frapuccino (for yourself or someone nearby) This one had to be replaced with a Chai frappuccino, since Starbucks didn't have a mocha coconut frappuccino this summer.
  44. Movie marathon
  45. DIY crafts
  46. Stargazing
  47. Water balloons
  48. Youth Group Activities
  49. Make homemade cherry limeade
Only 14 more to go! (And 4 more on my August resolutions goal.) May all of your summer bucket lists be accomplished as well!!! :)

Question for the Reader: What's your favorite summer tradition?

"He has made everything beautiful in its time. Also, he has put eternity into man's heart, yet so that he cannot find out what God has done from the beginning to the end." --Ecclesiastes 3:11

Saturday, August 3, 2013

The 30 Day Blog Challenge, Day 2: Secret Fears

Today this prompt made me think a lot about my heart and where my fears come from. I wish I could just say I don't have to write this one today because I am completely fearless, but deep down, that's not true. So I decided to be honest with myself and you, and I wrote this post about my secret and not-so-secret fears.

Prompt: Describe 3 legitimate fears you have and describe how they became fears.

Haunted houses, ghosts, evil spirits, etc.: I've always hated things like this, which is why I dread Halloween. I think this especially became a fear for me when I watched a funny but creepy movie when I was 8. I've never been able to be undisturbed by things like this ever since.

Pitch black dark: I'm not especially afraid of the dark anymore but I always get nervous when I have to go inside a really dark room at night. I think this one is pretty self-explanatory.

Sharp blades, poisonous/venomous animals, animals that tend to attack: Don't get me wrong, I love animals. I'm not very afraid of big poisonous animals such as snakes anymore after I went to a snake emporium in Florida, but they still scare me a little bit, only because they feel threatening. However, there's something really beautiful about every animal, even when it is threatening or scary. I think sharp blades safely fits into this category too, because what I'm really afraid of when it comes to attacking or venomous/poisonous animals and sharp blades is the possibility of pain. I think we all have some fear of that nature at some point in life.

What's amazing about all these things is that I have no reason to fear them, because of God.

Question for the Reader: What are your secret fears?

"For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline." --1 Timothy 1:7

Friday, August 2, 2013

The 30 Day Blog Challenge, Day 1: Fearfully and Wonderfully Made

Here we go...the first day of the 30 Day Blog Challenge.

Prompt: "List 10 random facts about yourself."

1. I love the Lord and have been saved by His grace through faith.
2. I am sixteen years old and my favorite colors are blue and purple.
3. I play the clarinet, bass clarinet, baritone sax, and alto sax.
4. I love to bake with gluten-free ingredients.
5. I love to read, but when I'm constantly assigned to read for homework, my interest all of a sudden seems to disappear. I have an entire list of books that I would truly love to just sit down and read for myself.
6. I go to two different schools...at the same time.
7. Youth Group is my favorite part of the week.
8. I've always loved to teach. (No seriously, always. When I was in elementary school, I used to convince some of my friends to play school after school, and I used to teach myself "crayon strokes" when I drew pictures at age 3. Even now, I still act like I'm Rachel Ray when I cook in the kitchen, and my youth group friends tell me I have a true talent for teaching the Word.)
9. Taylor Swift is one of my favorite music artists, but let's just say my Pandora account doesn't completely consist of country pop music.
10. I have yet to find the Lord's calling for me in order to use my spiritual gifts to His glory.

I hope this helped give you all a better glimpse of who is behind the scenes writing all of these inconsistent posts! :P

See you tomorrow for Day 2!

Question for the Reader: Any random facts about yourself that you'd like to share?

"I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well." --Psalm 139:14

The 30 Day Blog Challenge: "Seems Legit"

You know how sometimes you hear people say funny or cute stuff that just works for them, but when you say it, your friends think you're nuts? Maybe it's something like, "Yo," or "Mission Accomplished," or "Seems Legit." It's almost as if we're all walking memes...

This has happened with me recently with the word "awkies." A Youtuber from Blimey Cow, Jordan Taylor uses it plenty on the show Messy Mondays. I think it's so funny, and I've always wanted to get away with using the word. A few situations arose in the past couple of weeks where I finally got to use it! And guess what? My sister said, "Don't say that anymore. You sound ridiculous. That is so not you." So, my first response (like any other mule-headed, stubborn human being), was simply this: "Rawr. Leave me alone." I kept using it a couple of times, and I finally realized that there are some things in life that aren't just a "one-size fits all," free for the taking. Sometimes someone can say or do something that can look adorable, funny, or even intellectual, but it's just not going to work on you. You have to find things that make you unique!

I was thinking the negative version of this about blogging the other day. I thought that my blogging days might have been coming to a close. I wasn't writing very often, I was losing inspiration, and I was starting to lose the spark that I had with it on the very first day I created a blog. It seemed that blogging wasn't something that was working for me.

But today, I found a blog post on Emily is Smiling about the 30 Day Blog Challenge (Coincidentally, a similar post about the challenge where she got her idea from was on a blog called Mae Mae, which I follow as well!). This just seemed like the answer to the writer's block and inspiration problems I've been having. So, I'm putting it out there to say that I'm going to do my best to try this out. I'm not saying this will be the perfect plan that fixes all the problems for me, my lack of inspiration and writer's block, and Victorious Heroine itself, but I think this is a healthy way to start.

To see the prompts that I'll be using to start the challenge, check out this post at Emily is Smiling. I'll be starting the challenge very soon, so stay tuned!

(P.S. An announcement about recent life-changing experiences: I got my braces off yesterday! Feel free to leave comments about your braces stories or your own life-changing experiences.)

Question for the Reader: What do you do to conquer writer's block or lack of inspiration?

"Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known." --1 Corinthians 13:12

Thursday, August 1, 2013

August Resolutions

I can't believe summer is almost over!!! And July has flown away with it. So a new month has begun, therefore it is time for a new post about monthly resolutions.


Finish Summer Bucket List
I don't expect to cross off absolutely everything, but I don't want to leave any more than 10 on the list.

Summer Reading
I still have one book to finish for required summer reading and then I need to continue to finish as much of the Omnibus list as possible before online classes start.

Start 11th Grade
Technically, online classes don't start until orientations at the end of this month, but I still get to take care of responsibilities at Rocky Mountain (brick and mortar school). 

Get a job?
I'm still thinking and praying about this, but I need to start raising some money so that I can responsibly take care of my parent's cars when I start driving them when I get my license, plus a few trips are coming around next summer which I'd really like to do, and my parents think it would be a good way to spice up my college résumé and practice for adult life. I have a few ideas as to where I would apply, but it's sort of a matter of whether I feel ready to take on that responsibility yet or not.

Publish more blog posts
I've been failing to post on here very often. I want to change that this month. 

Recurring Goals:
Music Practice
Scripture Reading
Exercise
Diary Writing

I'm sure this month will go very well. Best wishes to you all in ending the summer and starting the fall!

Question for the Reader: What has been the highlight of your summer so far?

"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.The old has passed away; behold, the new has come." --2 Corinthians 5:17

How to Prepare for the Coming School Year

We all despise that day when we look at a calendar and realize that summer isn't going to last forever. Pretty soon, many of us will be right back where we started last August: at a school desk, listening to a lecture, writing essays, performing lab experiments, and reading until your eyes just can't take it anymore.

Now don't get me wrong, I like school. Something about it makes me want to go to the nearest Office Depot and buy everyone I know a lifetime supply of sharpened pencils. Not to mention all the ways you can decorate your binders, and label your notebooks, and cut out pieces of paper only to find one of the best crafty creations of all time. We always seem to find ourselves re-creating a mindset of eating lunch with our friends and showing our parents a report card chock full of straight A's and B's.

However, this mindset is easier to dream than to turn into a reality. How do we prepare for the challenges ahead?

Congratulations, you receive 1000 brownie points, a gold sticker, and an A+, because lucky for you all, you found my blog. So, I'd like to treat you to the master how-to checklist for conquering the preparation it takes to survive the next nine or ten months at a school desk.

1. Reflect
As students, we grow up being told to study the proper way, and the proper way is to study ourselves and figure out what works best for us. For example, in a language class, everybody has to memorize a ton of vocabulary from English to the language or the language to English. Plenty of people struggle with this, and they have to figure out what way to study truly works for them, whether it's flashcards, putting your hand over the page, or reading it over and over again until it's memorized. Before you start preparing in any other way for this coming school year, reflect on what kinds of things worked for you in studying for tests, quizzes, and homework, planning out your schedule, organizing notes and materials, and accomplishing tasks. What should you keep doing? What needs to change?

2. Inventory (Studying Materials and School Supplies)
After you reflect and answer the questions at the end of #1, the next question you need to ask yourself is, "What do I need in order to keep doing or change what I did last year?" You might need your master list of school supplies for this one. If your teachers provided one, then definitely use it, but try to add some things that you might need just for you, such as extra colored pens for color coded note-taking, or highlighters or index cards. This is one of my favorite parts because it's where I get to go on a treasure hunt around the house. Don't waste your parent's or your own money either, because if something you need is in the house and in perfectly working order, then use it for the coming school year and save your money for a new package of magic erasers to replace your crumbly, dysfunctional one.

3. Inventory (School Clothes & Teacher Recommended Items)
Speaking as a girl, certain situations arise in the late summer where I kind of freak out about my sense of style for the coming school year. I go to a school where on Fridays I have to wear uniforms, which makes things pretty easy to plan outfits, but for the rest of the week, I have more freedom to wear things outside of a more strict dress code. I'd say that the best way to prepare your closet for school is to go through it, and see what you usually wear and don't wear much at all. If you don't wear something, give it away, if you do wear it often, then keep it. If you have a dress code at your school, then make sure you have all the things you need in order to follow it. If you do not, then make sure you have appropriate and necessary clothing in order to get through the school day. Don't forget to make sure you have things like sweaters or school spirit wear so that when the weather gets colder, you'll be comfortable in class, or if you have school spirit wear, you can have it ready for spirit days.
As far as teacher recommended items go, it's important to make sure you have everything that they tell you to have ready. Most schools give out a school newsletter in the summer with information on school supplies, summer homework, and specific materials needed for each class. If possible, figure out what classes you'll be in that semester so that you can get the specific information needed for each individual class. If your school has orientations, try not to miss those either. Orientations are gold mines for important information to help you survive the school year.

4. Make a study area
At my school, I am provided with an online class study area. In other words, my brick-and-mortar school gives me an entire office area complete with a computer, a desk with a chair, a cubicle, and a bookshelf so that I can do online classes during the day, and have a homework study area in between classes as well. I love this privilege, but I lacked an area like this at home. It was great to have an area prepared to do homework at school, but I always went home to study in several different locations around the house. This resulted in several messy rooms in the house and lots of distractions, as I sometimes chose locations to study unwisely. A couple of weeks ago, I decided that I would find a specific place to study at home, and stick to that place as my special "study area." Several study skills experts say this is a great thing to invest in for a student because it's consistent and helps them be much more organized. This place can be almost anywhere in the house, as long as it's in a quiet and comfortable place so that the student can focus. Make sure that you have a desk with the materials needed for homework and studying such as pens, pencils, erasers, highlighters, index cards, paper, mathematical instruments, and in some cases, a computer.

5. Organizing & Planning
Once you have everything you need in terms of materials and places to put them, it's time to organize them all. Label all of your school supplies and put them in a place where you'll know to find them when they are needed. Now of course the first day of school isn't here yet, so put the things that you'll need to bring to your locker and new classes in different bags. For example, keep your notebooks, and locker decorations in a bag for your locker stuff, and put your school supplies that you need to carry with you into different classes in your backpack. If your school doesn't provide one, make sure that you get your own student planner. It will help you organize and plan out your homework assignments, tests, and important class events and announcements, and also help you organize after-school activities. It's also a good idea to make sure you have routines planned out so that you will have good habits and get things done on time, whether it's getting to the school bus stop at the right time, getting to class on time, or doing your homework in an organized way.

So that's it! 5 ways to make sure that you are as prepared as possible for the coming school year. Except one more thing: Don't worry. God's in control. :)

Question for the Reader (A round of "Would you rather..."): Would you rather have a monkey do your homework all school year or go without all of your school supplies for the entire school year (no pens, pencils, highlighters, paper, notebooks, binders, index cards, or flash drives, etc.)?

Happy National Simplify Your Life Week!

"For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding." --Proverbs 2:6